DD is 4 in march and the only time she has stayed over is with MY mother when DS was born. I have no intention of letting THEM look after my kids, day or night.

Im not into my kids getting looked after by other people, family or not. Thats my job and no one elses. This is my choice and i realise others may not agree.s

You have to be comfortable with the decision of leaving your child but also ask yourself if your child is going to be to traumatized by the experience. Every mum is different with what they want for there kids so its solely you decision.