It's up to you hun, it IS very personal. I can't quite remember when we first left our DS overnight, but it was sometime past 12 months. Although you miss them heaps, I think it should be a time to be enjoyed, not stressed about. If you think you will relax enough to enjoy the weekend, then go for it. But if you're going to fret and worry about him, it won't be worth it, leave it for another time. There will always be other festivals .

I agree with Willow, a massive part of it for me is who will be caring for our DS. He has only ever stayed with my mum overnight, and only a handful of times. He has always spent lots of time at her house, so I have always been happy that he will be comfortable and know where he is. I am just not ready yet to leave him anywhere else. Another thing I would consider is how far away you will be.......I personally couldn't be too far away from my DS, even at 2 and a half. I would worry WAY too much if we were more than an hour away. But again, each to their own, it might not be something that concerns you. Just thought I would put it out there .

Oh, and it's pretty common for dad's to be more blase about the idea of leaving their little ones than the mums........my DH thinks it's going to be awesome, and then always wants to go and pick DS up by 10pm LOL. If it does become an issue for you guys, make sure you sit down and really explain to him how you're feeling about things. After some discussion he might see things from your side (as a mum) a little better .