She is still young so may not ask the question you are worried about. But if she does you could say
"everyone is different and some people want to get married and others don't. Daddy and I don't want to get married. But that's okay. We are a happy family and font need to be married to stay that way"
If she asks why not. You can just repeat "everyone is different and that's just the way that we feel".
But as she is only 4 I'd be surprised if she even thought about it. As far as she knows her family are together and happy and that's all that matters. If she could feel you were unhappy maybe it would be different. But even then. Kids seem to ask us the questions when we least expect it!!!
Try to enjoyr the days and don't think about it!!!
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dd1 has been asking since about that age. It's even more difficult that she knows that mummy used to be married to "uncle c" but now "uncle c" lives with "uncle r" so we really are messed up! 
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