i have tried talking to him but he just fobs it off and defends her. when i was pregnant i was on fb and a status of hers came up and she was talking to her sister about leaving my brother when she was pregnant (she was 9 or so weeks ahead of me) and how she didnt think it was a good idea at that stage as she only had 12 weeks to go in the pregnancy. i called my mum concerned but by the time my mum went to see it, she had deleted it. mum called up my brother and he just denied it and defended her. needless to say i ended up with nasty text messages accusing me of spreading lies around about her. considering both DH and my aunty also read and saw it, i definately wasnt spreading anything around. she is just a nasty person. i have caught her telling people on fb how bad my brother treats her and how bad my mother is. my brother bends over backwards to provide for her and the two kids (the eldest of which isnt his) and so does my mother. i just dont get how she can treat them like this.