Yeah - great article Rory!

One thing I can't stand (and you funnily enough see it on Big Brother and other shows LOL) is people who say "well that's who I am, if they don't like it, too bad.. I'm not changing for anyone'. Ugh. No one asks you to change who you are, but showing respect for other people's feelings/boundaries/likes/dislikes etc is a very important quality. To say stuff like that is the wrong kind of self esteem IMO.