The biggest problem I have at the moment, is that DD1 is 3 whole years older than DD2, but she believes they should be treated exactly the same. Its driving me nuts! A 5 year old can't put dishes awa, an 8 year old can. I ask for DD1's help with something, like getting her to put DS in the shower or bath & she winges that she has to do everything & DD2 has to do nothing Its a hard life!