I'm planning number two as we speak so i'm not much use on the single child side of things. But, you've lovely and young and you've got so many years of fertility left you can easily let it go for five, even ten years before you need to be worried bout having number two. Relax and enjoy your beautiful daughter, get some financial security behind you, build your career and leave your plans open for another later down the track.

My husband also has an illness so I've gone back to work as well, although not full time. I earn equal dollars and I never know what will happen with his health so I'm really focussed on making sure I maintain my own career, keep it up hon, it's not an easy road and it sounds like you're doing a great job, be super proud of yourself!!!!
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