i was 19 when i had DD too ive never thought i was too young although i do sometimes get jealous of hearing about friends doing certain things that just arent feezable when u have kids!
my coping strategy...i dont really know i think i take comfort in the fact that when 730pm rolls around she's in bed(mind u she'doesnt always go to sleep then) but i know i can kick back and just do me things.
i know this prob wont work for you seeing as your newley single but 2 nights a week a go to my BFF's for coffee and to just talk like an adult and not have to worry about DD for a few hours.
DF works 6 days a week and doesnt really do too much to take the pressure off me on his day off, so i completely understand the wanting to run away thing!!! i send DD to day care from 9-12 on a weds, this is ment to be my down time to just relax but most of the time i end up running errands and by the time 12 comes along i havent sat down yet! so that completely defeats the purpose!
so in all, no real advice lol, but your definetely not alone! i can see myself writting a similair post once this one comes along in oct.
Big hugs hun
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