I knew before Ds was born, i have been pregnant almost constantly since 2006 with 3 pregnancies and one chemical pregnancy. It has taken it's toll as I had bed rest at the end of the last two and I hated not being able to play with the girls let alone keep up with the housework.

If I was to be pg again I would probably end up on bed rest again from 34 weeks as it seems to be the magical number of when my body decides that's enough and my labours are super fast. I only just got to the hospital in time with ds, my waters broke and we got there in 20 min, I was pushing in 15 minutes and he arrived 20 minutes later. It would have been quicker if he didnt get stuck. Dd was 40 minutes after my waters broke but we were already at hospital.

But aside from all that I just feel like our family is complete and do does dh. We always thought we wanted four but we have changed our minds.