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i think it's to do with carrying on the name etc. I have explained that a lot of women now keep there own name but our surname is very uncommon and he comes from a very small family.
Tali - thanks for that. I will be using that one ïf we are going to try for another baby it will be for another baby- not for a boy
You were RAK'ed in 2015.
Why cant you make a compromise by saying that you will revisit the topic in 3-5yrs? That time frame because thats you said the Dr said about time to let your body heal.
A lot can happen in that period of time. It also gives you both heaps of time to revisit the question.
Personally I can understand why you are hesistant about going back again, but I can also understand why he would want to go again. He may be saying its because he wants a boy, but maybe there is more to his thinking than just that?
If I were you I would agree to disagree at the moment with the intention to revisiting the question in a few years time...
Goodluck, and please excuse my ramblings
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