I've just started being consistent with getting DD who is 4 to do chores. I started because she was just leaving me to do things for her and wouldn't help when asked.

So I've made a chart for one week to test the concept. Her job is pack up after she completes a games or play. She gets a star for each time she helps clean up an activity and after collecting 12 stars she gets to go out for pink milk with me.

Other jobs I have also started are helping to set the table, putting her pj's under her pillow etc and unpacking the dishwasher.

Funnily my 2 yo has also started to help and she wants stars too lol