I know what you mean hun. I have 5 cousins, I grew up with 3 of them (also close in age, 2 boys one girl) and the other two on my dad's side I didn't have much to do with. Anyhoo, all my cousins are overseas, so very little family here. I've got only one brother who's just had a bub and my SIL says that's it. So my DS has one cousin on my side who was born on my DS's birthday this year (so they are exactly one year apart), and on my DF's side my DS has heaps of much much older cousins..... that's why I'd love at least one more child so DS has a couple of buddies