Worried she'll let her CIO

[dust]

just me, but i wouldnt leave any baby/child of mine (regardless of whether its a family member) with someone, if i didn't trust them... id rather play the safe side than be worried constantly the whole time i was away from them.

[Epacris]

Well, if you feel that strongly about it, and you feel you can't ask your Grandmother to look after your DD how you would like her to, then don't do it. More hugs

[Shanti]

I cant' believe your Grandma won't listen to you and would let your DD CIO!! That's so disrespectful to not only your DD but to you and your DH also.
YOUR baby, YOUR rules.
I probably wouldn't leave my DD there if I knew she might do that.
As for screaming/crying in the car for 20mins... I know what you mean... it's awful... my DD did it for 1hr once when she was 6wks i was on my own it was heartbreaking even stopping the car didnt help! but yeah making a baby CIO in their cot on their own is VERY different!!!

[Heaven]

I'm not sure if we're allowed to take her. I'm going to try and see if she'll come with us and just look after her while she waits for us. That would be better!!