Lenny - I spent a while thinking I may pine a bit for what might have been ITMS but recently we seem to have moved a bit further away from the baby stage. I am also really not enjoying the almost 3yo tantrums lol. HAving said that I guess I have made the decision to be happy with it and focus on what we do have and the plans for the future. Sounds a bit contradictory from my original post but looking forward to school for DD1 and kinder for DD2 as our challenges for the next year or two!!! xx