i haven't had this exact experience, but I wondered whether the service has another office you can have your scans etc at?? I am with MIVF and while the nurses in the city have always been lovely, the nurse at one of the suburban clinic's where visit for most of my scans and meds etc is absolutely gorgeous, and I feel so well supported and don't mind seeing her however many times I need to!!

So while I need to go to the city or ET, and the day hospital round the corner for EPU I can do a lot of stuff at the local clinic.

Do you have that option??