Thanks everyone

Livinthedream - is that why they say you can overfeed? God, I'd kill for my DD to be a chubby little thing lol. She came at 34 weeks and is growing well but not even on the charts for weight, length or anything else and is kind of long but thin.

Also, I don't really feel like a horrible mummy, just lots of people have pulled the guilt trip in a big, big way, you know? I felt really horrible about FF at first but I don't now - DD is flourishing and that's all I need to know

Thanks for all your advice ladies.