Hey Lindley,

Don't worry about what you were saying wrong...I'm sure you didn't say anything wrong!

You have to remember that if the person bails before you go through with insemenation - then they've done you a favour by bailing early. Although it's hard and painful, you want to make sure you have a good match between both parties.

It is better to be open and honest and risk saying something that might turn a donor off - than trying to say the right things and ending up with someone whose not on the same page as you.

Goodluck - I'm at the same stage, looking for the right donor. It's a tough one, but maybe the most important step.

Caz