That's terrible! It sounds like you're new to SA (?) I'm just wondering if a woman-centred health service like Women's Health Statewide that might be able to provide you with some starting points for a) finding a good hospital, but also in the longer term finding a lesbian-aware GP that you can attend on a regular basis. I know they have a feminist framework and both of their Southern and Northern Women's Health services provide support for same-sex attracted women, so they might have some useful info for you. Good luck!!!