Hi, I too am researching the same as you and your partner. My partner and I have been together for 13 years and have an adopted son. I am going to try a donor from a clinic in the States. It is difficult to talk to others so feel free to ask us anything. If I have any luck, I will let you know. Good luck!
your right it is hard, because while you may have some friends or family to talk to about it all, nobody really understands unless they are doing it too themselves!
Ill admit i lay in bed each night stressing and thinking about it all, because, talking with my partner, because we do want to start our family right now, but there are just so many pros and cons, of either way we will choose to go.
either donor, or clinic.
In a perfect world id have a best friend guy, who would donate with love, and help us start our family, and sort of be a role model for him or her throughout life.
we do not have that, and some of the donors who have approched us via our internet adds are just you know, can you really trust them??
I would love to know more about your road to children, anyone please do share!!
and if anybody wants a buddy to chat with about it all please do pm me and my partner.
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