Wow this was the funniest post I have read so far. I am so glad to hear the reaction of the sperm because I was thinking I was going to be the only one. Ok so I read something about a co-parenting waiting list. What is this? I live in US and was wondering if it was something different here. I am quite interested in how I've read other posts and being successful with being able to DTD without feeling so awkward. I just imagine elevator music playing in the bathroom first for the donor and then the pass-off...How did you get passed all of this? I had found a donor that was willing to donate but I just couldn't imagine this part go down. I guess I would really have to be completely comfortable with the idea before getting to this point. Very interesting though. Any advice on how to get over this hump (NPI) would be greatly appreciated. And Indigograce I'm extremely jealous and want to congrats on the twins. My partner of 13 years and I are both identical twins.