Hello sorry to post here, I know its not exactly my place as Im not gay. But this topic seems to be tabboo in the hetro world. I get shouted down for it often.

My partners sperm is unable to fertilise any eggs due to a medical condition. So we decided on donor but in NSW it is such a long wait for donor sperm. So we decided to advertise for Donors. We found one finally. He is willing to either go to the IVF clinic or home insemination.

We have stated we would like him to have an HIV and STD Test before doing home insemination. He is a professional 44 yr old man with 4 kids of his own. He is not interested in contact and sees this as giving a gift to us. And we are happy with this.

As you can see both my partner and I are tending to lean towards doing the home insemination as we could get started quicker. I am 35 yrs old and the clock is tick tick ticking.

I sorry if I offend anyone in advance it is not my intention.
I just wanted to know if anyone here has gone through home insemination and what their experiences were.


bye for now
Redlady.


p.s. this is the only place I think I would find compassion and understanding thats why I posted here.