Well one day a month on an interstate trip is pure madness and clearly not in the best interests of anyone! It is unreasonable for her to expect you to be happy with that when you have had a lot more access previously.
I am so sorry for what is happening to you. It must be absolute heart break. My suggestion would be to write your ex a letter outlining your legal rights as a parent and the repercussions that your ex will have to deal with if she doesn't do the right thing. Tell her that you have a lawyer and that you will use the law if you have to. I don't know your ex, but hopefully this will scare her enough for her to reconsider what she is doing.
My thoughts are with you honey, and I hope that this horrible situation is sorted out for you and your baby girl.
i sent her the letter my lawyer advised me to saying that she is to bring her back immediatly or face further legal action, she got this then i got a phone call where she said that they both (her and my daughter) had passports so try and find them, she then went on to say she has got dna results proving who the sperm donor is and that he would be writing a letter saying the donation was for her only, which really hurts, we had been together for almost 2 years when we decided together to have a child and i was there for them both the entire time. The lies and the betrayal and hurtfulness of this just makes me angry how can someone do this, i still speak to my daughter everynight and every night she says she wants to come with me. My ex doesnt care less about what any of us wants. I will be ringing the lawyer again to find out where i stand if she does go to court and lies through the whole process.
I'm so sorry this is happening to you, it's a really horrible situation for you and your daughter
I think you need to speak to a lawyer again. Do you have a really good family laywer with a repuataion in same-sex parent rights? Our lawyer is AMAZING, she is in Brisbane, 'specialses' in same-sex couples/de facto and family law. If you want her details I think if you click the 'msn' button below my post count you can email me or add me to msn and I can give you her details.
What's happening to you and your daughter is not right, and I really feel for you I'm so sorry that your ex is manipulating the situation and willing to lie
Thanks for all your replies, Leasha im not sure how to add you but if i could get the details somehow that would be great at the moment im just using legal aid cant afford much more my ex also left me with a joint loan that i pay 500 a fortnight for so i am living with my sister until i can get that sorted out aswell. xoxo
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I'm so sorry that your ex is manipulating the situation and willing to lie
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