A new kid on the block :)

[Nats]

Second cycle wasn't successful either. Had similar pains on the left but more persistent and they didn't stop even after getting my period Doc can't see anything so I'm going to see an acupuncturist - hopefully that will be helpful. Hopefully 3rd time (next week) lucky!!

I just can't stand that pain... it's been over 3 weeks of being in pain now. If I were pregnant it'd be ok, coz at least there's a good reason. But being in pain for 3 weeks for no apparent reason just drives me nuts!

[Meo]

it's been over 3 weeks of being in pain now.

You might want to go and see a doctor about ectopic pregnancy - I don't know what the symptoms are besides abdominal pain (never had one) but doesn't sound good to me.

Also, sorry to hear about your first month's effort. I had an early miscarriage/weird period similar soon after we started trying, but nothing since. Hope it works out for you soonest!

[Nats]

Thanks. I went to a "conventional" doctor and she says everything just looks normal.

I went to that acupuncturist/chinese doctor yesterday and he said my liver is over-working and sabotaging my efforts to get pregnant - and that my body's too hot and it's a problem (pre-ovulation my temp is usually about 36.5 and after it's about 37 till 3 days AFTER I get my period). So he stuck some needles in me and gave me chinese herb pill - hopefully it'll help. He said it's also stress related - which would make sense because I want to get pregnant so much, and our donor is getting married in just a few months. To be honest it scares me that he'll just get sick of donating or that I won't get pregnant fast enough - and once him and his fiance will start trying we can forget about it. I know I just really need to relax but it's not easy.