Hiya,

We snuck in before the laws changed & every lesbian in Victoria signed up for anonymous donor sperm so our wait wasn't very long. Yes, anonymous sperm for us & we chose a donor who was open to being contacted before the kids turned 18 & had the physical characteristics that we thought were important.
It's a total lottery though, we chose a dark eyed, dark haired 'donor dad' & both our boys have blonde hair & blue eyes
We were pregnant within 6 months of the first meeting with our fertility specialist, but don't forget the wait for anonymous sperm is a lot longer now, less donors since they made it compulsory for the sperm donor to go on a register so he can be contacted when the kids turn 18. It means there are both less donors & more couples waiting, cause the same sex parenting law changes meant that single women & lesbians can now access donor sperm & IVF treatment without being infertile.
Good luck girls, looking forward to your pregnancy announcement!