We don't have a parenting order for DS who is nearly 4. I (non-bio mum) have admitted him to hospital twice, enrolled him in kindergarten and school, no questions asked, no problems whatsoever. I receive FTB for him as well.

DP is on his birth certificate, we had to provide a stat dec saying we used a known donor, and "not stated" appears under father. I wanted to register the birth so that I could be listed as the "informant" on the bottom, but it wasn't allowed.