Hi ema...

Try the talking turkey website (google 'talking turkey paernting orders'). They're also called consent orders. What goes in them depends on what you want in them. I was on the family law court and you can get access so I *think* its something like LawNet or something which has some cases, and some examples of what is in a parenting order, though its mostly hetereosexual couples who have broken up and the orders are about access.

Although in NSW both mums are able to be on the birth certificate... if you're both on the certificate you're both recognised as parents, I think this eliminates the need for a parenting order.

HTH.