Thanks guys, dd is a pro at strapping herself in so I guess she can strap ds in for him, he won't be able to drive though as the car is manual...

He has already been picking ds up one handed so I guess that's solved as well. He has also worked out how to open a beer, but for some reason he is too injured to then take the empty bottle to the recycling.... Lol. Patience is wearing thin already!

I think he is just going to have to manage, he decided against surgery this morning so he could go through private health insurance so I am going to have to take a few days of unpaid leave I guess to take him there and look after the kids. He can sort himself out after that. Am I being mean? If your dh did that to you as a sahm would you think it was unreasonable?