Don't know if you remember - I had a broken hand when your DD was born. Just after she was born, actually, but I remember going through the pain to give her a cuddle, totally worth it!

It's hard, definitely hard work. I don't think he should be driving. Manual or not, you just don't have the motor skills you might need in an emegency, like being able to grip the wheel properly. Prepping food and wiping my bum were the hardest things, and at work I transferred out of working with under threes. For food I got a mate in to help me with big batch cooking, he chopped, I cooked, I let him take half. So maybe call in some favours food wise.

He didn't break his arm on purpose... I can see where you might be frustrated, but it won't help things to get mad.