This is what I've done with DS: introduce him to beauty care.

An almost three-year-old is capable of massaging my hand with a sugar scrub and then stroking moisturiser onto it afterwards. With a LOT of praise and me doing his hands too. (I just realised how much of a bad mother I am LMAO. Then I also think I could get him to do my feet too...)

I'm currently having some body hair lasered off just to save myself 10 minutes in the shower. Honestly, I just don't have the time to shave these days. I can make a 30-min laser appointment after work every 5-6 weeks though.

DS also likes dressing my hair. But that is NOT a good thing to encourage.

I'm getting an aerobics DVD after Christmas and DS and I will do it together - we currently dance to the TV so he can do aerobics with me. Keep him fit/get him worn out too.

Just think... wouldn't you love your husband to give you a foot massage and look after you? I'm ensuring I have a very fortunate DiL. See, I'm so selfless it hurts (until I remind DS to go gentle on the massage).