And sometimes, you can not like a particular person if they aren't telling you what they want to hear (Side note: I have had a few clients complain when I wasn't willing to say "yes you did the right thing in stealing from your boss and it is unreasonable for the organisation to be pursuing disciplinary action" - they'd come to see me to be justified and that isn't my role).
Do you think maybe I am trying to get her to tell me what I wanted to hear?

I mean I did say a few things with the intention of giving her an example but i felt she either just shot me down or tried to steer me back to my issues being related to my DD. Gah, Im so confused!!!

Bloom & Heaven, thank you both for your replies. I do think that is where I need to head, I did get the feeling (maybe Im way off) that perhaps my issues where a bit out of this particular persons league iykwim.