Stress Levels. Why am I not handling things very well anymore?

[Mother Goose]

I exercise. Even a short walk is usually enough to destress me. Or I meditate.

[Kazbah]

Exercise is a classic prescription for stress / anxiety.

Talking therapy in conjunction with.

Identifying what your stresses are, and looking to reduce them.

[BrightSparkles]

OMG I could have written your post at times!
I have to feed miss S but i'll bbl to post. :hugs: xx

[AliBaby]

Thanks girls.

I should exercise more. It will also help with my weight.

MG- How do I meditate? I dont know if I have the patience for it LOL! See I am truly hopeless.

Sunshine- hope you are okay. Sing out if you need any help (like actual help-not the type your MIL offers)

Sometimes I think maybe work is causing me the most stress. I love my job so much. If we were rich, I would still work but I dont think I am coping with the fact that even though I am working part time and only being paid for part time, I seem to be doing more than what I did working full time (and getting paid half the amount).

I think the stress builds up and I absolutely run out of patience when I get home. I use it all up at school. The thing is I can be fine and then all of a sudden...BANG...something inside me fires up and I am a nutter!!! Its not PMT either as it seems to be consistent. I had all my bloods done recently and thyroid and all is fine. Maybe I need my head tested.

[shellbell3]

I have been feeling very similar to that lately, do you get anytime to yourself just to wind down, get out in the fresh air?

[AliBaby]

TBH Shell- I have a lot of time by myself in the evenings. DP is at work until 11:30pm and DD is in bed at 7pm but I tend to throw myself into work. Even though I have the tv on, I have been searching stuff for my class and actually watching you tube clips on growing rice (We are doing a unit of work on Japan and food is a topic). I am just about to go and cook some rice! PMSL.

I just never put time into myself. Or maybe I do if I think of myself as being made up from DD, DP, my class, school, friends, house etc. I suppose they are the things that make up my life so I try and make them good but then leave out myself. Gosh that sounds jumbled.

[AnyDream]

BellaB - I'm currently taking a 12 week course on living well - it's a particular program about a whole heap of lifestyle things but mindfulness meditation is the most important one. They say as you meditate regularly - even just 10 mins here and there - it affects your biochemistry and eventually resets your stress dial so it's lower most of the time (so that even when you are stressed, you feel it less in your body). How to meditate - well it's simple and hard at the same time, so I'd suggest getting your hands on some meditation/relaxation CDs from your public library or ebay...then all you gotta do is get comfy and listen and relax.

I had a period of intense stress last year for a couple of months when I knew I had cancer but I didn't know how bad - things that helped me were - exercise (taking a walk or dancing around the lounge room), sitting in the sunshine just feeling it on my skin, taking a bath, oh yeah - and deep slow breathing. The deep slooooooooow breathing works in as little as 5 breaths. I would start there in a stress emergency.