You are right Lily, i would love another baby. I just have the strong feeling that im not complete and i would love a sibling close to DD's age. I understand that DP wants to just enjoy DD a bit more but it is something we need to discuss because if he isnt going to use anything and neither am i then how are we preventing getting pregnant??
I was about to leave for the shops and its started pouring down with rain, side way rain as well so theres no chance of going out in that
It isn't uncommon for your periods to take time to get back to regularity after pregnancy, even though it returned so quickly (which usually happens when you don't BF).
Give your stress levels lately too, again, not uncommon for it to mess with your hormones, and the Zoloft will not be helping.
The side effects of the Zoloft itself also can be what you are reading as pos pg signs.
You REALLY need to sort out with DF the use of contraception. You are not ready for another baby, you know this, despite how much you want one. And if he has expressed a desire NOT to have another one right now, then you need to start taking responsibility.
Condoms are easy, if he won't wear one, then no sex. Simple.
As you aren't BF you could go on the pill, you could also use a diaphragm.
There are so many options, burying your head in the sand and hoping you will get pregnant despite knowing DF isn't ready and neither are you, is not going to do any of you any favours.
Time to start acting like an adult and take responsibility.
have you mentioned before that you have PCOS? Or am I just imagining that..my memory can be pretty terrible!
Could also be due to stress/worry and your new meds..don't go jumping the gun too quickly. Didn't you have a false alarm just a couple of months ago?
If you are just starting on meds for PND, its probably not the best time for another baby. You need to sort yourself out first.
As they say, if its not on, its not on. Is there a reason you haven't done anything about contraception yourself?
Hope you can get a test soon.
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