I think I get both sides here. I think ,like most things to do with parenting, it's a fine line. You want children to feel like they are in control of their bodies but don't want to turn them into kids who are scared of any physical contact. I think the article was interesting, and I do a lot of those things myself but seemed a little "over the top" for me. I don't know what gave me that feeling, I'll have to re-read it and think about it some more but it seemed a little extreme for me. I wouldn't want my kids to think that I am seeing everyone as a potential molestor (although as a parent you kinda do), I don't want my kids losing their innocence or feeling afraid if someone gives them a hug. I guess it's the difference between encouraging my DD to show affection and forcing her. (have no idea if that even makes sense?)