just wondering if any of you wonderful parents have any tips for my little oscar who becomes very distressed when i put him in his car seat. i have to stop frequently to soothe him and obviously keep car trips to a minimum but with two older children driving is a must for sports, school etc. as you all know i have oscar with me 24/7 and have him in his sling most of the day and co-sleep with him at night so this separation in the car is dreadful for him. i try and constantly talk to him telling him i am just in front of him and that he just can't see me but i am near but at times he just get distressed even with his brothers next to him. neither of my other two had this distress in the car, they loved it and feel asleep during trips.

any suggests would be greatly appreciated.

love beckles