Thanks for the responses guys
Ness thanks for the reassurance
Daniella they always say that she settled down reasonably quickly but they don't give me an actual time IYKWIM. Maybe I should ask.
Kimmy since it is her first week I thought I should spend some time with her trying to get her settled but I think you're right it doesn't help, I would be better to just take her in, give her a kiss and cuddle and then go. I usually ring once in the morning to make sure she settled down OK, and after that I just try to concentrate on work. I know the Bear rings in the afternoon to check on her and if something was wrong they would contact me.
It will be nice when she is happy to go there, it will just make the day a lot more pleasant.
Thanks again girls