yes unfortunatly I do.. I rarely say anything to them.. Might have a whine to DH later though..
I am sure people disagree with my parenting style
ie the barefoot thing.. I used to judge on that till I had a child that simply refused shoes. It was hard no matter how hard we tried. In the end we decided not to fight him anymore and he soon got the idea and wear shoes.. but in saying that we didn't let him walk where it was not safe
On your friend I would be ringing someone about this guy living there.. I thought once you had been charged with something to do with kids you weren't allowed near them? Which means he is breaking the law..
I find that I judge more when I am being judged. If another parent is not being nice about my parenting, then I will tend to find fault in them. I have to admit early on I was quite judgemental, but as my parenting time has increased I have become more understanding of different parenting and as such tend to judge less, or maybe it is more that I am better at not letting things affect me. Also now I tend to keep any judgemental thoughts to myself, well most of the time, I can be nasty when I am in the mood.
I will admit something shallow, I will be more judgemental of someone's parenting if I just plain don't like them for some reason
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