This is me all over. I read lots of different things and refuse to rule something out point blank because it is considered 'bad' by others.
In fact it really irks me when people blindly follow the 'rules' of one philosophy without stopping, looking around and analyzing why they are doing it. I think if you loose the ability to question and find fault in your chosen philosophy you are starting to loose touch with your own instincts and your first hand knowledge of YOUR children which no philosophy will ever understand as well as you do.
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I agree!