Heaven your timing is impeccable. This is something that I am really starting to struggle with...I have used the word naughty and I don't like it, so I have been thinking about stopping. I don't want her calling herself a naughty girl and as she repeats everything I say, if I continue its bound to happen.

Onyx, I like your thinking - describe the behaviour adequately. What about physical agression - DD is getting really physical with DS, she'll grab his collar and pull or give him a shove or something... what would I call that, more specific than naughty??