I understand it may be difficult to say something without it being offensive. Before being a mum myself I would never say anything as it's not my child. Now that I'm a mother I understand even more now, as I would not like anyone to tell me how I should be with my baby. My BIL came over with his then 3 month old and I touched him and he was boiling under all the covers in his capsule.I wanted to rip all the covers off him but had to leave him as it's not my place. So how would you not be offensive I don't know?? It's a tough one.

I'm still wrapping my little one as he arrived early and is really only a week old corrected, but I now leave his legs more free as he likes to stretch and I just keep his sholders wrapped snug with his hands by his face.

No doubt the bubba just wanted to be held and to be part of the gathering like everyone else.