I think it was just posted here so discussion started. I think people also post here because they would prefer to get a reply from someone who doesn't post a reply with things like it being an irresponsible thing to do and feel that it may be a more accepting place to discuss alternative options.

I use the term 'gentle' parenting because I don't like using 'alternative' parenting as I don't see it as being alternative. So you are getting me on a technicality there.

Perhaps I should ditch the word gentle as everyone seems to take it as them not being 'gentle' if they dont do these things.

Anyone got a suggestion?