Give them a chance to achieve.
I let my kids help me do things around the house - even if it takes a little longer...

I never underestimate what they can do and let them work things out for themselves. If it doesn't work the first time, have another go.
I let them fall, I don't overprotect, but am always there for cuddles if needed.

I don't talk over them, and let them answer questions on their own.

At nightime I like to go over all the great things they did that day, and talk about what we might do tomorrow.

I always say what I mean ,and mean what I say - no empty threats or promises.

Their dad lets them get away with murder, but it's always me they come to if they need help...