Its definitely not just you - I have it times 3!!

My girls have gotten better though, I took about 2/3's of their toys away and they now have to clean up their own room of a night time before bed. If I walk by during the day and see them starting to destroy stuff, I remind them that its them that has to pack it away tonight, so they might want to be a bit neater.

But they also rip things they day they get it - I just throw it in the bin. Their loss. I figure they're not really interested in it anyway. But it does drive me mad because we are on a very low income so once its gone - its gone!