and our favourite saying is "This too shall pass"........ it will. If you can, make sure you have a shower, it used to make me feel better. Not as good as an 8 hr sleep, but better somehow.
and our favourite saying is "This too shall pass"........ it will. If you can, make sure you have a shower, it used to make me feel better. Not as good as an 8 hr sleep, but better somehow.
AwwIt's been a while since I was there, but just remember to not worry too much about housework etc etc. Try and rest/sleep during the day when the little one is asleep. And it will pass. Have you got anyone near you that could help out occasionally?
And it too shall indeed pass!! lol
Hang in there hpney - you are doing a great job, and before you know it, Espen will be feeding every 3 hours and sleeping better and all of a sudden you will remember what it is like to sleep for longer than an hour!![]()
Oh Ren, you are doing so well hun. As you know, this is such a short phase, and in some ways you'll miss it when it's over. Not the lack of sleep, but having such a tiny baby. Big hugs to you, you can and will get through this is. We have all been there (I've been there twice) and I remember it well. It is so much harder than we think it's going to be, but then you are a lot stronger and more capable than you probably ever realised too. Hang in there, it will definitely get better soon.
As the others have all said, it will pass and then you look back and wonder if it was that bad after all and decide to do it all over againIt will get better hun, take the snatches of rest while you can, treat yourself with a special bath, immerse yourself in a good book, even if it is for only 15 minutes. Eat really well to keep up your energy and go for short walks in the fresh air - it makes a big difference even getting 10-15 minutes of fresh air and sunshine. One thing that helped me calculating that we have these babies for 216 months if they live at home until they are 18 and there will only be a few where it is 2-3 hourly feeds and extreme sleep deprivation.
and enjoy the snuggles, MR is right, they get too big and old far too quickly.
Thank you girls! I am teary reading your lovely posts (ahh- the joys of tiredness). It's good just to be reminded what a short time it is... I look at him and how small and precious he is and I know that but it's hard to see past it at the moment.
We get loads of walks and sunshine as walking outside is guaranteed to put him to sleep- so it's good for me too! I'm eating pretty well- my sister came and stayed for a week and sorted us out food wise. And today I'm determined not to eat chocolate. I'm an addict and with the tiredness I've been eating more. Decided to cut it out today and see if he sleeps better. It's taking a lot of will power but will be worth it if I get to sleep!
Good on you ren... the other thing I used to do which helped me was to see each and every sunrise as the start of a fresh, new day. Yesterday has gone forever.... live in the moment. Savor the precious ones, and let go of the difficult onesyou'll get there.
Bookmarks