These are all great suggestionsfor at home. But what do you do when you are out? You can't really threaten to take privileges off a 3 year old when you are at the shops or someones house etc as they won't understand when you get home will they? As the consequence is too far in time from the action IYKWIM? So what do you do then? I know you can leave as a consequence but that doesn't work if they don't want to be there in the first place or you really can't leave where you are?