Thanks! Wow I couldn't let dd do that at such a young age, she only cries for reason.

It is true as pp have said, you change your stance on things after the birth. That being said I've been quite sick since dd's birth so my dreams of being an organized active mum have been on hold.

She'll have to work that out for herself, but maybe when things aren't working how she envisioned after the baby is born you can offer the support and more balanced view