Thanks for your replies. I bought the Wiggles toothpaste today.

olive - I will look into the tablets. DP told me today that apparently we are getting fluoride in the water here soon but we will be on tank water soon so back in the same boat. I am so overdue to go to the dentist myself.....went every 6 months until I was 18 and very few times since then I have no fillings but can't ride the good start forever! How young can I take DS? He has this really weird looking front tooth, it's like two small teeth joined together.....

Marcellus - I am still feeding DS once a day in the morning on waking. Is that enough do you think?

Nai and Heda - I wish I was only holding his head! He runs away too quick so I hold his whole body on my lap with one arm tucked under my arm and hold his other hand and then brush It's horrible! It's good to hear they do improve.

Twin sister - bribes are a good idea. We don't read to DS before bed because it hypes him up into thinking it's playtime but I'll give it some thought as to how we can reward him.