Will he ever stop feeding at night?

[BabyMama]

Thanks for all the advice and support. It always helps to hear from those who've been there.

I know he'll sleep through eventually but for now I'll enjoy being his mum and know that what we do in these early years impacts our kids for the rest of their lives.

[Neenee Jellybeanie]

My DD is 17 months and still has night feeds most nights. I think for her she has bad dreams or just gets unsettled and feeding helps her resettle. When she was the age of your little boy, she would have big feeds at night and I chose not to take action because in my opinion, she needed it. She hardly fed at all during the day (she ate solids but never sat still long enough for BM) so despite the child health nurses advice, I figured i'd rather her just have it. The frequency dropped though when I started taking her into a quiet, dim room to drink during the day so she actually had a proper feed rather than hopping on and off repeatedly!

[BabyMama]

Thanks Neenee. DS sounds similar in that he's pretty disinterested in bf during the day but at night he has big feeds. I've always kept night feeds low-key and quiet so I'll try doing the same for day feeds and see if that makes a difference

[Michelle71]

Tobily - you give me hope. DS still has a drink roughly twice (or more) a night. He self weaned at 15 ish months but continues to wake and has never slept through the night. I can only hope he starts to sleep through .......... one day

[Gigi]

every bub is different. i was still feeding my child every two hours at 18months, so a four hour stretch at nine months (in comparison) sounds pretty good to me.

i remember being told that night milk has some special goodies in it, that day milk doesn't, that helped me cope with the situation better. Plus feeding in bed.

No one thing works for every family, you need to tailor it to suit YOUR family, and your commitments.

i had a dh who slept (willingly) on the sofa for a year, brought baby to me for feeds. I didn't have to worry about going to paid work the next day. Everyone is in a different situation.

At over two now, my child seems to want a feed around midnight and another around 5am, i'm ok with that as i'm so used to it. She cries for milk, i just think "she's thirsty" and i go to her.

weaning is a very personal thing, what you want/feel comfortable with, what your child wants/feels comfy with - i think it's a balancing act. (not to mention, if you are physically able to produce the milk in the first place).