my child is 3 in November and i would like to night wean her. But she is very uncuddly, so if the technique is "cuddle but dont' feed", i can't use that on her.

if i dont' feed her, she cries and can get quite hysterical. I THOUGHT i would let her self wean, but now, i'm really finding myself wishing she would hurry up with that. Hard to know where to talk about it, as most people think me bf-ing a nearly three year old is nuts anyway. (i got that message from when she was five months old - "what? why isn't she on formula etc etc".)