I had GD with DD1. Mine was controlled via diet and exercise. OBS did not discuss at anytime induction due to my GD. I was induced (consented) at nine days past EDD. I was monitored as well as DD after the birth but there was no issue. I was also encouraged to BF. DD was topped up with formula but had nothing to do with the GD.

Can you have an appt with the OBS and midwives to discuss exactly what their protocols are? I guess whist you can refuse their requests at least you will know what you are up against (if anything) and have a plan of attack.

Best of luck