Its a shame you can't change as I feel your trust in this one may not be there 100% anymore. Have you considered getting a Doula to help support you and your DH for the birth? If you feel that your DH might need a bit of help if he needs to advocate for you, a Doula can be very reassuring for you both. Sometimes when the time comes and you are in the throes of labour you can't always be sure that you will be able to advocate for yourself and our DH's, while they have the best of intentions, can often be swayed into thinking that you need more monitoring or intervention etc. Something to think about anyway. Good luck and let us know how you get on with it all.